Hand to Hand

Toddler Cleaning Up

While washing dishes, give your child a spoon to hold. Say, “You have a spoon!” Then hold your hand open and say, “My turn!” See if they will hand the spoon back to you. If they do, say, “Thank you!” If they don’t, give them another utensil and see if you can trade them back-and-forth.

See what your child is learning

When you and your child play this game of give-and-take, you’re helping them understand the back-and-forth of communication. They’re using their skills of focus and self-control as they listen, watch, and follow your directions.


Related Age Guides

1 Year

Your child is learning and growing! Find events, programs, and tips to help support them.

2 Years

Discover how your toddler learns, and find events, programs, and tips to help support their growth.

More Tips Like This

When you're out, find a safe spot to let your child explore.... Try this tip
Describe to your child how the day is: "Today is bright and ... Try this tip